tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50465686663819583352024-03-05T20:49:33.652-08:00The Forgotten MomSomebody please help me to remember...Who am I?Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-41963840532384455282010-01-26T13:41:00.000-08:002010-01-26T14:41:01.381-08:00My little peanut....<img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOsLWBw2GXOy6IJ7MbV3EKmWZzb1hrVlncCiXKU1i77aH4cbaJh3KYcZwdIwgt05UzgpDVEju6z9-9dj4eai_t3DN5jVrahpt84h8KQv36lHoywn6nO1z1-ZtVbJLRLtz5mQeuhzM02Cw/s200/IMG_3831.JPG" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5431180789226058210" />is sick :( Over the weekend I had a wedding to coordinate up in Clewiston, FL. I was M.I.A. from my blog because I had to prepare myself to go organize, coordinate & mediate everything happening for the wedding. Here are some pics:<div><br /><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidjqB9r4dmZlYCv6oFZzc4ldOnqpGhFpaMwFb0H9ilhiQH_tpBFJ-BFgEdoGC23iDCcjnBvtKdUjcoX2vGjleI8j5dCOqx9Hg8eJd4NqR5IIx30hxsX7oqPN7tYVxzToqhnFI0il3GCvA/s200/IMG_3834.JPG" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5431180981714664482" /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>If you didn't know, I periodically plan special events - weddings, parties and the like, but realized it was taking too much of my time from my family & me. So, months ago I decided this was my very last wedding. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>While the weekend was productive and the wedding was beautiful, it was bittersweet. It was a winter wonderland theme and while it was planned in sunny South Florida, the only thing that really had any cold was my daughter.</div><div><div><br /></div><div> * sigh* </div><div><div><br /></div><div>I just knew that the sleepless nights and restless days were upon me. She told me and the hubs her nose was nenested (translation: Congested) She is so cute! It is so hard though to watch her sick. Somehow, in the middle of having no sleep, watching her struggle to breathe and missing out on my plans I can still smile - God is good. While I am still making my adjustments for the week, I realized I could use a little more motivation to continue sticking things out. Now that I am free from any other pressing things eating up my time, I am looking at how I can be more effective with accomplishing my goals for the year. I already have accomplished one by closing the business so I can have more free time for me & my family. The next few things are just creative endeavors to keep me invigorated!</div><div><br /></div><div>I noticed that when I am more specific & detailed with how I am looking to accomplish my goals - long or short term - I actually see them through. Maybe not always within " my timing" lol but still they are accomplished.</div><div><br /></div><div>I am in the process of laying out the exact days - not times lol - I plan to do everything I want to do. Keeping in mind that I have no control over anyone specific thing. It helps me to be flexible cause I stress less if I'm not as productive as I think I "should be". I am listing the days I plan to:</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Blog</b> - Monday or Tuesday, Thursday ( 2-3 times per week ;)</div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal; "><b>Workout </b>- Monday, Wednesday & Friday (Stretching on off days)</span></b></div><div><b>Mentoring </b> - Wednesday nights with Moms Life Ministry</div><div><b>Hang with friends</b> - Tuesday, Thursday & Saturday</div><div><b>Rest/ Mommy time</b> - At least 15 minutes per day every weekday & All Day Sunday</div><div><br /></div><div>It has helped so much already and whatever happens to be left undone I will get to when the next week, God willing, rolls around. It helps me to feel like I am leaving no one out while still taking care of house, home & spending time with the hubs and my baby. I am even thinking of trying to get the hubs in on doing a date night at least 2x per month ;)</div><div><br /></div><div>Now keep in mind this is an outline of a typical week for me, not something I rigidly live by. I have never been the type of person who embraces order but I find without it you are just asking for chaos. I still sit down to right my plans for the day (at night)- cause you can only plan for so much as a mom. I am also still receiving interviews in order to launch my Inspiring mom interviews - which will launch on February 2nd!!! Yay! As well as continuing to sketch for my collection and I even have an upcoming photo shoot!!! So it seems I am on track FINALLY!!! My only wish is that I would have implemented such simple things sooner. Hindsight is 20/20. </div><div><br /></div><div>So with that said, I leave you with the wise words from... ummm...lol I don''t know but whoever he is he was wise for saying: Preparation + Opportunity = Success!</div><div><br /></div><div>My hope is that we are all successful in whatever capacity God has given us to be successful in! Motherhood, Marriage, Business, Health, Finances! Let's get prepared together ladies. If you have any suggestions or tips, always feel free to share. You never know who may need to hear what you have to say to make their day a little easier.</div><div><br /></div><div>Don't forget to take care of you!</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought...</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">Pics courtesy of Candace Sheppard, JCS Events</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div></div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-19180474810881815882010-01-18T08:01:00.000-08:002010-01-18T08:45:05.762-08:00I live for....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-Bi2mcJJBO7KXEBsuwGtsOtK9IP4_bE2nlW3LUdLOVwJizHRjvql942hjOHoxdY4xbI7KIxawIZ8Gbs_ZhA33aONW8lqPDqoBFH2HT9j19hPyxoC1sR0VU5ELBYyZ92s8_Nkw5k1-874/s1600-h/636544american-breakfast-of-pancakes-eggs-and-bacon-posters.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-Bi2mcJJBO7KXEBsuwGtsOtK9IP4_bE2nlW3LUdLOVwJizHRjvql942hjOHoxdY4xbI7KIxawIZ8Gbs_ZhA33aONW8lqPDqoBFH2HT9j19hPyxoC1sR0VU5ELBYyZ92s8_Nkw5k1-874/s200/636544american-breakfast-of-pancakes-eggs-and-bacon-posters.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428119014322324178" /></a><br />days like today. I woke up this morning - after getting some real sleep, which I never do - well rested and energized. The munchkin was occupied watching cartoons when the hubs came home early unexpectedly! It was a nice surprise, even my daughter was squealing with laughter & excitement. He stayed for a bit ( he came home for a break before a staff meeting, he works 5 min. away) and we talked for a while he even made us both pancakes and eggs. It was sooo good. Bonus? I didn't have to cook! Gotta love that man!!!<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I live for days like today because they are just so easy... there is no where to go and nothing to do. Scratch that, there is always something to do... laundry, dishes (after the hubs left) and I could go on and on lol! What I love about days like this are the unexpected things that switch up the crazy but mundane routine of "getting through the day". I am learning that while having a plan is great, the unknown & unexpected things that greet you during the day can be enjoyed equally as well. Don't get me wrong I am not forsaking the plan, just easing into it while making it a part of my lifestyle. I am still being very productive- only thing I have been neglecting now is my sewing :( I have a series of sketches together and a dress form just waiting to be draped but no time to do it. I think every week I am going to actively put one of the "juggling balls" down so I can focus on something really needing my attention... bye bye to being overwhelmed... or so I think lol.</div><div><br /></div><div>This past week was unusually crazy as far as time was. It seemed to have really grabbed a hold of me and what's important. My husband is Haitian and so you can imagine how devastating the news of the earthquake was. My poor mother in law is really suffering, family is over there and still are yet to be found. There is nothing like devastation to snap you out of your small little world and wake you up to reality. I am seeing in an instant how quickly things can change for us and finding the value in every second of every minute of every day. I will continue to hold onto "my plans" however I will guard my time spent with the ones that I love fiercely. It is amazing how reality forces you to truly evaluate where you stand in your life and if you are really pursuing whats important. If the sewing and fashion show or any of my plans never pan out, I will not be broken over it because I intentionally lived for the every moment and the days like this. </div><div><br /></div><div>My husband is the King of planning - trust me... he is a stickler lol but he is so right. I don't know where he got this quote from but I had to share it with you all.</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;">"Time is the coin of life. Prayerfully determine how you will spend it, lest you let other people spend it for you."</span></span></i></b></span></div><div><br /></div><div>I don't know about you... but I don't want anyone spending anything of mine. Money, time or not. Be sure to send a little extra love to those you love today including yourself and be sure to take care of you while the time is one your side. I know it is hard to do but so is anything worth having ;)</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div><div><br /></div><div>All of my love & prayers to the families of Haiti, you are loved. If you can do anything to help, do it. Just be sure it's with a reputable organization.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">pics courtesy of ycheng.wordpress.com</span></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-518739344548926132010-01-13T19:28:00.001-08:002010-01-13T20:11:37.037-08:00Just when I thought....<div style="text-align: left;">I was finally getting a handle on planning out my days and scheduling my time, it's like every obstacle I could possibly face is out to get me! I was just saying how I was going to blog 2-3 times per week here it is exactly one week later and I have yet to do a new post. Is it just me or do you ladies know what I'm talking about?</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>Every time I go to sit at the computer... or do anything else for that matter, something goes wrong. Something is burning in the kitchen, my daughter starts calling me because she's hungry or has to go potty, it's always something. I guess that's the name of the game when mom becomes part of your "job" description ;)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>Well anyhoo, I just could not let another day go by without posting an update on my new lifestyle changes. While I may not be as successful with my blogging :/ I certainly can say that I've been successful with everything else I set out to do. Every night I sit down to to write down a plan of sorts for the next day. It helps because I'm no longer running aimlessly but if I miss one or two things on the list, I can smile because just about everything else has gotten done! I also can roll it over to the next day and I find I'm much more peaceful & productive. Brownie points for me!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>I'm still working on doing a fashion show... just slowly. I find that pacing myself for when the timing is just right will allow me to be more creative. So I've decided that in the mean time I would sell some of my wares through my Etsy store, so I can keep that hope of doing a show alive and <i>STILL</i> be creative. </div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMY3bsK1JN-J6GEE_x8EHJYuPPGNWzAmaCM6122Flwgrfw36B0YEpGneVmzofvQUemkf91jK2kBf2iU4LwFCp3F3ep9W59M1Dz66RCwNiEetJxZBQPAt3FITS_TTYI-eFwiD8oY5V9mUw/s200/fashion-show_1.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 134px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5426442176981333650" /></div><div><br /></div><div>The other goal I'm working on is to re-launch my inspiring moms interviews - I have to gather a few more posts so I'm more consistent this time around - don't be surprised if you get the next call for one ;) I have a few already lined up and ready to go and I know it's going to be awesome. Should you know of any inspiring moms that you would love to recommend for interviewing send me a line! We all need the encouragement and it's a great way to keep us all connected. Here's an <a href="http://theforgottenmom.blogspot.com/2009/09/for-those-of-you-that-dont-know.html">example</a> of one of the previous interviews I did. (Leave a comment and let me know if you enjoy such posts) </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>Having a plan is awesome because it keeps you focused but it allows you to be flexible, so if you miss something you don't have to give up. You just keep pressing until you get there.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>As for my take care of you initiative, what I've been planning with my husband is to reach out to certain sponsors in an effort to be a blessing to moms. I want to remind them to care for themselves more often so they can love their loved ones a little more and be refreshed. We recently created a list of companies and are systematically reaching out to them to support what we have in mind - very excited about that! There's more to come... now in the mean time, I am determining to start a revolution of my own and really focus on taking better care of my body. I started with taking doing some yoga to relieve my stress and it is helping so much. I walk away every time so refreshed!!! I didn't have the money for classes but realized that my On Demand Cable allows me to view exercise & fitness videos free! Where there's a will to get better there's always a way! So I've been using what I have to get where I want. God is soooo cool! He provides.</div><div><br /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_B5CAuMO6dpyJ3CN0tk624m_URPYW3mNZ5TN7tLI8N-5vNCrLpDeP0PmKSvlJWX4r-KfSSiCVSVccx5oxZFXfWHOVodR5heQekbI7Mo1QGQhvh-3GEpcoTIJ4ytncat05LzqVIv8PRgw/s200/woman_doing_yoga.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 134px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5426440515968913506" /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>So while I may not be keeping all the balls in the air, I don't have to beat myself up. I can remain positive and only hope that all of the really important things are taken care of - like me, the hubs and my little peanut. </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7i4XWZ8_MWJaLq8cgr4RkymbXhqTnDo1_2uTBYGiW3YY3UHoKBCilWKGb56bEsMiKBZPREmk9sI6b2aOesKPKD3nG-YSyevNVwPpnvOd8UTQ36W4F_3s8NquJdg-ix6_QK_lHjMm-Ex8/s200/new+york+city.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5426439737217291490" /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Family pic Central Park '07</span></div><div><br /></div><div>Let that encourage you today, no matter where you find yourself in your list of things to do, just be proud you are doing something to better you & your family.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought.... and while you're thinking about that remember to take care of you!</div><div><br /></div><div>P.S. When you think of Haiti pray! All of my love to those who are suffering with the loss of loved ones...</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">pics courtesy of joanrivers.com & breastenhancementreport.com</span></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-40823275576697611942010-01-05T06:39:00.000-08:002010-01-05T07:32:19.761-08:00No resolutions...<div style="text-align: left;">Just lifestyle changes.</div><div><br /></div><div>Happy New year to all of you lovelies. The holidays went by so fast this year and can you believe it, we're about one week into 2010! There is just so much to talk about and tell you all. My trip to NYC was fantastic! My little peanut had a chance to enjoy all or her cousins, grandparents, aunts, uncles, you name it. She was so sad to leave now all she does is ask for her <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Abuela</span> (grandmother) and to get on the plane with the video (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">JetBlue</span>). *Sigh* It was fun while it lasted. Here are some pics:</div><div><br /></div><div>I don't know about <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">ya'll</span> but when i get on a plane i take it serious!!! <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Lol</span>!</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9cj8Z3gK20DpJ_04PU6nykljnipU65Oi-s92sjXLXVOWK7Jze_d6iqnb0tnl8WB7YN4h6WxW46VMHD94M4NT684NbSvdNXDoV7LVGtWA6-dkXuTizsb-kDJIJImjXrFxVFulex4sQoZo/s200/IMG_3132.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423272171871566418" /></div><div>Me, Leia and my grandmother - <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">She's</span> such a beautiful person and woman. I miss her already :(</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVBpU2e_LdCDvCpCjAdCd0f2U8ZVaLLLHvw-eQnl_9TOFXVxY5Bw6kupuMXWT2VBUIZMEFdctGEqnRzZePFVmx_Y_bRHAzaQJCCpIDfH7lo9oeGPhg5OdjZ0EqLinWoYNpaEaTf_z-2ZE/s200/IMG_3169.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423272033868946754" /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Leia with all of the kids. They had so much fun this day.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYrtQmGWlTSK7ujrUoK489Hig_KvsC8KsxQiFqkumsy2_lN8u-QT-hdbdkKgnAMbdgnMOU70Qg5SE3LOZ3lG7uxuSXhbCuCrB4ZnbCtWqQXVeGf_acLtXSO7Bx4FkshhY2uweJ0_pWHLQ/s200/IMG_3204.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423271867782979378" /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Leia on Christmas day - her first real Christmas! She got this baby doll and was beaming!!! The picture doesn't do her initial reaction justice. Too cute!</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXirqMRfgY2sH_WBApReQ26eKL4XsJXiMrxUpQOrSzCZ-9r3Pa-K-WUO2eZpIFhnWki4c4ZpFmdCG4FM2yonOozM7vz9Hrp4xQUE0lj1g7khs3VVovAw6uDEML0ohjlwULnqSGKlRkj78/s200/IMG_3285.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423271661295444002" /></div><div>We had a blast and I could not have asked God for more! Family, good food and presents? You can't beat it. Since I left my beloved home away from home I have had much time - like most of us to reflect. I am not now nor have I ever been one to create resolutions each year. I don't knock anyone else I just think it's a temporary solution to a "problem" when I don't need to be "fixed". I personally feel it's better to incorporate the change I want into my lifestyle and then the results I am looking for last. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">So as a result of my reflection there are several things I want to incorporate into my lifestyle to see more change for the better.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Setting more realistic goals & not being afraid to attain them. I find that I am more willing to try new things and to push myself to take more calculated risks. Nothing wrong with a little more planning even while risk taking right? Don't wanna jump without a parachute.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">In order to set & view my goals, I am taking time to write down the things I want to attain and the things I <i>feel </i>are impossible to achieve. God blows me away every time just when I think something is impossible & I submit it to Him, He comes through. Like that NYC Trip for Christmas. The hubs and I kept saying that we wouldn't go to New York and spend what we didn't have unless God blessed us... and He came through in a BIG way! three round trip tickets and one week before Christmas no less. HE. IS. AWESOME!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I am also taking steps with my daily plans now so I can see my goals for the future attained. Can you say Fashion show, hint hint ;) budgeting my finances, selecting venues, models, photographers, the whole nine yards. Something I never would have done I am challenging myself to do now and it is invigorating. Same goes with the munchkin, sadly she will be going to school soon, so I am saving money and looking for scholarships now so it's a breeze when then comes.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">A couple of other goals quickly:</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">- to launch my take care of you initiative for moms... more on this later ;)</div><div style="text-align: left;">- to blog more consistently 2 -3 times a week instead of everyday is more realistic for me</div><div style="text-align: left;">- to re-launch my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Aww</span>... Inspiring Moms Interviews - we all need the support, tips and advice from those we find inspiring and who better than other moms to look to?</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Enough said! ( I did ramble today) I am fired up and I cannot wait to take the remainder of 2010 by the reigns and ride this roller coaster called life out. Here's to a better me for 2010. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Don't forget to take care of you!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">- Just a thought...</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-3249393063657098152009-12-15T07:16:00.001-08:002009-12-15T07:36:21.793-08:00A total warm your heart moment.....Ok so I mentioned before in one of my previous posts about the <a href="http://theforgottenmom.blogspot.com/2009/11/well-i-have-finally.html">Potty Wars</a> going on over here, lol but I just had to announce that my lil peanut has FINALLY overcome her fear of the toilet, a.k.a. the "Big Girl" potty as she now calls it. <div><br /></div><div>It has been heaven! While I still have to wipe her little tushy, I don't have to clean the potty anymore! You guys have to happy dance with me. Anyhoo, just the other day as I was in the middle of... ahem... cleaning her up, we did the potty song, clapped and danced and when she jumped down to get cleaned up she turned with those big eyes and said " Thank you mommy for wiping my booty." It nearly brought tears to my eyes. Afterward I had to laugh a little cause it was so funny to hear her say booty but it was such a tender moment because who likes to clean "dirty tushy's"? So often I hate to have to do those things but for her to say thank you had me over the moon.</div><div><br /></div><div>I. Really. Love. My. Baby. Girl.</div><div><br /></div><div>Even though she's not a baby anymore. I had to hug her and say thank you for thanking mommy afterward. Thank God for children and their pure hearts. I hope that makes you smile.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a story,</div><div><br /></div><div>Candace</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-83548505919024390462009-12-09T16:33:00.000-08:002009-12-09T17:19:36.542-08:00I . LOVE. CHRISTMAS....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOqrI0Gx_p-VPwCGeOQRywHkvOZpS84x_h_pEoq4Ppxo6MIBkrJrRcA2dAsqsBfXrTFA1VlK_V3nHHFsPp_r97zCL7sOTKu6fUOe2tiUVQqGu2uaC6frvfSSNVGi8d8vOupM7e2wtX5iM/s1600-h/davidjones_wideweb__470x294,0.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 125px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOqrI0Gx_p-VPwCGeOQRywHkvOZpS84x_h_pEoq4Ppxo6MIBkrJrRcA2dAsqsBfXrTFA1VlK_V3nHHFsPp_r97zCL7sOTKu6fUOe2tiUVQqGu2uaC6frvfSSNVGi8d8vOupM7e2wtX5iM/s200/davidjones_wideweb__470x294,0.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5413408209654767010" /></a>SHOPPING! I don't mind the ridiculous lines, the nasty cashier attitudes, the lack of good sales.... yeah right! LOL I had you there for a second! It doesn't bother me as much as others but I have had a moment of standing in line with twisted lips as my arm is gettin' ready to fall off cause all of the carts are gone and somebody just cut me in line and you. know. the. deal.<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: normal; "><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"> </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">pic courtesy of smh.com</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><br /></span><div>I just really enjoy the spirit of joy in the air. It is sooooo refreshing, in spite of the buying craze going on with everyone else. Iit truly is a very calming & reflective time of year for me. I have mentioned before that my family is all in NYC, which is widely known for the Christmas season - Snow, Rockefeller Center - and that I currently reside in sunny south Florida. I had resolved in my mind that once again I was not going to see my family this year, but God had a plan!</div><div><div><br /></div><div>On Monday, my husband came home early from work and gave me a card all while saying it was a Christmas gift he was giving early and not to get excited cause it was "corny". So I gladly opened it, cause I love all his gifts, to find some papers folded inside of a Christmas card. He's smiling so I'm thinking, ok... either he's being silly or plotting to take over the world.... starting with me. So I open the papers and there it is..... THREE BOOKED TICKETS TO NYC!!! That an anonymous giver paid for us!!!! (The hubs works in radio, so it was a total God thing how it happened, we don't have that kind of cash)</div><div><br /></div><div>I was so excited that I sobbed for t least 10 minutes. I haven't seen my family since my daughter was a year and a half( She's now three) I just had to share that with you all because we get so caught up in the hustle & bustle that we often miss the little miracles God leaves us along the way. He really does love and care about us and the deepest longings and desires in our hearts. For me, it was just to spend that time with my family. My hope is that you find the blessings & miracles in your life be it small or great. Especially the little miracles you have running circles around you! ;)</div><div><br /></div><div>My plan while we are away is to get lots of take care of "me time" and maybe even a lil shopping here & there... he he. I hope you get a moment of time to reflect on you & yours this year. Especially to take care of you ;) !</div><div><br /></div><div>Merry Christmas!</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought...</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-46X780nZIHA4sINeqn5HPSz6f2l5TBBr-0fGrNkAfswzxqJQkjnFbOIN3x1Wee8yd5-JzNUNFU5v6z5Ct6ryhnaaCq7GjpNzv_MwbdsKCIBWehHdZNeV9Uei92ovWrP-o8z32Ee3UVI/s200/Cherry+cordial+main+image.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 134px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5413407937079535394" /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">P.S... How can I receive and not be willing to give just the same? I will be running a sale in <a href="http://www.versetle1.etsy.com/">My Online Shop</a> on Etsy from Thurs. Dec. 10 - Mon. Dec. 14 for </span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">15 %</span></b> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">of all items in my entire store! No lines, no nasty attitudes and great customer service from one of your fellow moms...who can beat that?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Enjoy! </span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div></div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-25292643574147251322009-12-01T16:12:00.000-08:002009-12-01T16:21:09.786-08:00Hope you allhad an awesome Thanksgiving! I didn't get to wish anyone a happy one last week cause I was so absorbed in preparing to shop & cook for the family. We had a great time! All of my in-laws came over (my family is still in New York) we cooked up a storm and ate til' we all almost burst.<div> </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKaegOrwHgMTv7f-6igh9JiwUdkKTKDPg80V0rIaLbYB4rvExfrldEAdcbI_t_2squCLILGt5Ie7C07p4ZjUvA1tc5zK9lMlp8nkMlZaemp17ujJHeSoQ-QHbEnK51rFejSViZC-ohaOI/s200/oatmeal.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5410426943128304082" /></div><div>The best part was retiring my cooking pans after the fact - I didn't have to cook anything not even breakfast. Thank God for instant oatmeal. While I would like to say I took a load off with the free time I had from not having to cook, I didn't cause I have been sewing like a mad woman. I finally decided to open my own Etsy shop and it seems to be doing well so far. In the mean time I'm getting into gear for Christmas! I. LOVE. IT. I'm already plotting to go get my tree & hit up the dollar store for decorations ( yes, I said the dollar store...If you didn't know check it out) I'm am a bargain diva. Who's to say you can't decorate beautifully with cheap...umm.. I'm mean inexpensive decor? LOL</div><div><br /></div><div>Anyhoo, I just wanted to drop a hello to all of you wonderful mommies out there and say thank you for visiting, listening, watching and laughing with me throughout the past few months. I am truly thankful.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-48902759039618322872009-11-21T05:46:00.000-08:002009-11-21T06:21:53.525-08:00Since when does turning 3...mean " Now I run this place? "<img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6gbe7JaXphWrXYhydie91yZM7ZrwZgx6P9zDuAZ6TQli-exZfU8j-psMz6JBqQtIDLiP9ZL3ZKQZ-s07dS5veRhLf-A0xnFt_nhpJFgOriRb6jpz6Gu-2xxozl-M5qkl6o7LdLjKKtsQ/s200/defiant-child-main_Full.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 134px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5406559503143169314" /><div><br /></div><div>I mean last I checked, I was the one who married my husband, became pregnant & gave birth to a child. Certainly, someone left these details out because I think I may have to clarify the "rules of engagement" to my daughter. Clearly she thinks she's in control and I have to do something about it.</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:16px;"><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">pic courtesy of ehow.com</span></div><div>Temper tantrums don't work, screaming, kicking, crying...I'm not talking about her.. I mean me lol! In all seriousness though I am trying everything and this girl is like an oak tree. SHE. WILL. NOT. BE. MOVED. So I resolved to loving her for all of her stubbornness and instead of trying to break her to get her to "fit" into my mold, I will encourage her to stay strong but remember to yield to authority. Especially me - cause in case she didn't know, I'm the Head Hauncho around these parts. The Big Kahuna, The Chief, CEO, CFO, M.O.M!</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;"><br /></span></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjLkTWpQqlpesWI-DnNAjOXsU9Xe2bBt50luR5mMs1zdZZC9arc5nraj8Sbg-gCJoKf_FLXP8scF1Nujv_FviLLV0SHaVV2HaLW8tT97YNGdS3diomO2K9NjGx6XofXbxpfcYH8BNKbzY/s200/supernanny_narrowweb__200x352.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 114px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5406559293434693314" /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Anyhoo, sorry for the rant, I just needed to make that clear, even is she can't read lol! I just have to say that blogging is awesome! If any of you ladies have any comments or even advice post them cause I need help. My eyes are burning from watching Supernanny so much lol! Sound off & let me know how to emerge victorious from this battle. Pray I make it through with no battle scars!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:x-small;">pic courtesy of theage.com</span></div><div><br /></div><div>Speaking of awesome bloggers, I must ay I envy those of you who got a chance to hand & chat with each other at BlogHer this year but I was privileged to meet one of the moms in my own backyard! I bumped into her at church...great place to meet good people lol. It was Anna of Quiskaeya! I love blogging you guys rock!</div><div><br /></div><div>Remember not to forget to take care of you! I certainly won't ;)</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a few thoughts....</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-59893190856321398682009-11-10T06:24:00.000-08:002009-11-10T07:31:10.391-08:00it's an epidemic of .....huge proportions!<div><br /></div><div>Hello Lovelies! Normally I'm am being silly whenever I am posting but I find that it's time for me to get a lil serious today. You all know that I am a huge advocate for taking care of yourself AND your family. I mean if you aren't healthy, how will you possibly care for your family - let alone be able to be "pleasant" to those around you?</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHI0SziIckMVCezfCOTy3OqEOcMlRDGztKyD1l9a2e0npRThEBrB4fLHWru4nT8SsJLxTLV1RhJGLtrxApF1XendawsZYLBjvreufYP-2abfG3diZVrKfjS6OTbDql0QkuozGNW0OGITM/s200/mom.gif" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 155px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402496193988429362" /></div><div>You know what I mean, the saying goes, "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!" While it's funny it is also very true. I have been chatting with a few girlfriends of mine even a female relative or two who have all been struggling to take care of their families and have long forgotten about themselves, so that being said, we have to take action....take off your rubber gloves, burn your apron, put down the Lysol, drop the broom and listen up! Okay.... so I am still being a lil silly but I just can't help it.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Here's some more ways that you can do a lil' something just for yourself:</b></div><div><br /></div><div> 1. When you are feeling overwhelmed with everyday responsibility, Stop. Take a few deep breaths, put your feet up and even if it is just 30 seconds of breathing and sitting down ITS WORTH IT! Don't tell me you don't have 30 seconds now... better get off the computer a lil sooner ;) Sometimes just stopping to breathe when we are tense is just enough to relax us & keep us moving on with our day. Its serious! There's even evidence to back it up, Check out this <a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Deep-Breathing-For-Stress-Reduction-And-Food-Health&id=1335621">article</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div>2. After taking a deep breath, if you don't live in a 20 degree area, go for a walk. I used to make every excuse in the book NOT to go outside. It's too hot, it's too cold but the truth is that staying inside all of your days is a recipe for falling into a deep depression. NO.JOKE. I have been a victim of it and it is hard to battle as a lonely stay at home mom. if you have a friend go out with her, if you have family go out to see them, if you have no one I'm here for you and know that i have been there and emerged victorious! This is one not to miss! Bonus? You get to experience the beauty of God's nature and you'll be good when you get back home.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ7eYk4lREoMwUByBT9n0iKVKG_6HLZQoTQ1ACIXCMu4nO9kuVFuzAe1YkOzx571tNV0xvT9aPNiz5-GV2agjL8UDUKuE5EA6n-zuLuRbwU3kKFwR5t7JsLtUJusLVaMO7IqeZBv1et14/s200/starbucks-tea-latte.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 152px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402494966453425154" /></div><div><br /></div><div>3. Make some time for you during the week. I don't mean just 5 - 10 minutes but I mean legitimate time away from your home & children. You don't have to spend money either, if its cold where you are go to a library ( Peace & quiet ahhh!!!!) if its warm go to the mall and just</div><div>window shop. If you have a few bucks treat yourself to a nice dessert or a latte - with extra whipped cream..... okay back to reality, point is whatever you do, do it for you ;) Not only is it fun but I promise you, you will be sooo happy when you come back to your little ones!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>4. Exercise. Now I must caution you that exercise is my arch enemy but it's necessary for a healthy mind, body AND Spirit. You all know that I'm a God fearing woman, the truth is He created us in those three mediums to operate as one. Sound familiar? Anyhoo, you cannot deny the physical aspect of your body and not expect your mind & body not to be affected. I don't like highly aerobic workouts cause they can be hard on my body but stretching is wonderful for you. If you struggle with sleep as I do stretching before sleep will help to relax you, trust me as an insomniac, IT WORKS!</div><div><br /></div><div>5. Get rest. I cannot say this enough! If you are not sleeping your body is not being replenished or repaired. I stand guilty as charged. I am notorious for burning myself out so badly that I become sick or worse. Even God rested on the seventh day! I mean seriously, if He being infinite in all His might took a load off, how much more should we being fragile? Don't get me wrong we</div><div> are strong but to deny ourselves the very thing we were created to do can't be right. That why the shops close, lights are turned off and things shut down. Just in case you didn't know we as the women of the household are the captains of the ship we call home (not to deny the husbands authority). If you let go of the steering wheel & forget about our responsibility to ourselves AND those on board... where will everyone end up?</div><div><br /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiievXNqusFUMIl4hKjJUJ0zBLFsukR8xn4uhvf4fiLB59rJwuecJqHMGki1-DSNgikAik9ubtwxg3VSurEQkeZrrUFeqe3-gd98HD12eEmAN6Q9UqvNmjjWp-in7XayEaFMw_L3t_oBg/s200/shipwreck.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 128px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402493417448111106" /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Take that time....you know the rest.</div><div><br /></div><div>Ladies if you have any other advice or comments please weigh in with what works for you. You never know how you may encourage someone by just sharing how you make it happen.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought.....</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-51016549547762971592009-11-06T07:12:00.000-08:002009-11-06T07:52:15.995-08:00Well I have finally...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6uKNvFrqN7Z0Dbbz-QTheVSecWpg17BDX0lCGMkgOXp-SQmtjKsdQHmX5LIW_MEwdR-DdWyxPbReKzZzWZeOiEeymsd1R5-JSTI2qA-iM4XPraGqWBAPxtRQaVGc96siF93qiV7MzGks/s1600-h/images+(2).jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 100px; height: 107px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6uKNvFrqN7Z0Dbbz-QTheVSecWpg17BDX0lCGMkgOXp-SQmtjKsdQHmX5LIW_MEwdR-DdWyxPbReKzZzWZeOiEeymsd1R5-JSTI2qA-iM4XPraGqWBAPxtRQaVGc96siF93qiV7MzGks/s200/images+(2).jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5401018287575994914" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;">Conquered my computer woes for now....or so it seems ( I can laugh about it now) and while I am feeling victorious as I sit in front of my computer, I have waged a <b>new</b> battle with my now three year old ;)</div></div><div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div><div><br /></div><div>POTTY WARS! I can hear all of the theme music playing in the background - DUN DUN DUN!!!!!!!! with blood curdling screams firing off in the background... okay enough of the drama and back to the story.</div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0Ln9OSHRaloC4ounF9DGWwOe5bQ1ufBJRHmpF-5kgKAxYg9WBK15SOFDqO-WqVjBtxj8pZHWAlzduqTa8pCCI8hWhAbESYR1j8zebrQbjefyAfdD-R7GnJJdclwpekXAH9-0lS5eR6WE/s200/images+(1).jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 104px; height: 131px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5401017503609412114" /><div><br /></div><div>As I was saying, I have begun the battle with the potty. Now just so you know my little peanut Leia has been well trained since she was about 2 years old. I started when she was about 14 months, it quickly got too overwhelming for her, so we took a break and resumed when she hit 2. Now she has been a rare case - she took on very quickly and very rarely had an accident unless she was groggy in the morning - ( I can count on one hand her accidents and still have fingers left)</div><div><br /></div><div>Anyhoo, lately I find that while she is fully trained she has been having all of these accidents. For example, she was sitting on my lap while I was banging/working on my computer and proceeded to scream "I gotta potty" and peed all over me, the computer chair & my floor. Sometimes I find she hasn't gone all day and then in a rush she goes running & peeing all over the place! I don't know what's going on here! Even if I ask her if she has to go she still won't. Me & the hubs have to leave her there crying in order for her to go. I don't know if its an independence thing or what but I am tired of cleaning out the potty and my floors! By the way, this new independence thing at 3 years old... a whole nother ' blog post.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhreA4s33EJF2W9akE9j_tfEpMJggbo0IvvQR6Qqw8d6zuysKYIhac2H1SLAZDQ19bVMGgfsIW2oUe2HtPcfrGfT4sftdV4sr4697ht41eVKfNL_sBbz9doJ0TD7flC2vWMhXwDNLkzQ0U/s200/potty-training1.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 136px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5401015258174687602" /></div><div>Sorry for the rant but the only thing that gives me peace while I'm in the midst of cleaning is knowing that I'm loving her in the midst of this instead of reacting to what's happening. It reminds me of how many times God has to come down & clean up my mess. At least she's innocent and doing this unknowingly... or so I think. Well besides the cleaning of my peanut and her potty there is much to be happy about. We'll see if that attitude sticks though the next time I have to clean up a dirty potty lol!</div><div><br /></div><div>Regardless of what part of the floor (or your child) you find yourself cleaning make some time to take care of just you. </div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div><div><br /></div><div>What am I doing for me you're thinking? I'm getting ready to go hang out with my girlfriends and then coming home to nap with the kid & the hubs. You didn't think I forgot huh? </div></div></div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-3671143722445614472009-11-04T09:13:00.000-08:002009-11-04T09:21:20.527-08:00This is exactly how I feel...<div style="text-align: left;">about my computer!!!!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirKjmv3y6_dKv1VV_DcSQps9Wttmn0vjMJoBthaQorAhiBbB8tfKWbf9Jy7JcsHEzXvzmhOYTEnnc9SdxMN1L9zk6ejKjqY_KCltx8jSyLZZmWKRvjo3iqF-zTqN1nliiOIglC5B6fhS8/s200/businessman-smashing-his_~cwa0023.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 188px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400299553247903714" /></div><div>While I'm brand new, my situation with this page taking FOREVER to load is getting real old...real fast.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>We have since been experiencing some technical difficulties and when they resume as they should be we'll get back to our regular scheduled programming.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Anyone know my frustration? Leave your comments & advice if you know how to deal.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a frustrated rant......</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-52050990327217783182009-11-02T13:34:00.000-08:002009-11-02T13:42:34.799-08:00I'm .....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjl6SiD-MA7fIyP9k48fgnKFBRq0-bEEVRCk72z2Yip65Jb3HwQi4zF1p9pWlnPr3qBFXXy2Q-CdVS4qJxepA1toPS4JWKxQ9FngGu16WrRunP-ochvZD0d-jRGoRhzdKZbTbf5K-OiWWI/s1600-h/Jumping-For-Joy-Print-C10095091.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 156px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjl6SiD-MA7fIyP9k48fgnKFBRq0-bEEVRCk72z2Yip65Jb3HwQi4zF1p9pWlnPr3qBFXXy2Q-CdVS4qJxepA1toPS4JWKxQ9FngGu16WrRunP-ochvZD0d-jRGoRhzdKZbTbf5K-OiWWI/s200/Jumping-For-Joy-Print-C10095091.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399624632242936162" /></a><br />brand new everyone!<div><br /></div><div>Hello lovelies! It's wonderful to be back and better than ever! Nothing like a makeover to give a gurl a confidence boost huh? I absolutely adore what Louise ( of Adori Graphics) did for my blog and my hope is that you love it too. If not that's okay I'll still love you lol! It makes me wanna jump for joy.</div><div><br /></div><div>Anyhoo, I have since recovered from my denial of my child getting older but am absorbing the time and fun we are having just for today. There are so many great things to talk to you all about and I just cannot wait to share so stay tuned....</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought.... and while you ponder that may I ask, what have you done for you lately?</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-31960601467049917152009-10-21T12:02:00.001-07:002009-10-21T12:31:06.331-07:00The last day she.....<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: left;">will be two years old is today. Tomorrow will mark my baby leaving the baby years officially....WILL SOMEBODY PLEASE GET OUT THE WORLD CLOCK AND STOP IT!!!!!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOAYzY26HH5oWhkPcYriYcM_OuAlhgnayFo2mKgFyvVFW-veJr1PKd5bVVvwOkFy_3MlYLgOgQELZo1jf0g1zYn1F9OCy9b-FGesqQDwCZUNvs_ZkyX3em4bwTFwEXF224je17JrZAkWA/s200/IMG_0015.JPG" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395137292079539666" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMQeq5a0AYB7n_zKqvsX22MaihMjpqPZ3xoVw2Lvs1o54tmQuR3cu64CQ0YOi3LO3rD8msMFp-IeycQB_FY1NppxQr85NvL2JTW1OFOWx3Pj-0SlHEypbCyakCsedfS0ulDcITtk5ZwvE/s200/IMG_0021.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395137743351701074" /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Time is going by <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">wayyy</span> too fast. I figured I would find some comfort here from all of you out there in mommy land, I also decided to just recap on some of the most wonderful things that have happened in the last three years that I will miss and the things I won't miss so much.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGQOo7lIuNseqpKswZJjhySxXVaNrMMfmHJP1EmjBzCx1fHqyRPe3-Faz51Iqc7eZKHyuceJZqceCEE3HYtos9fAwDbPPasX3gJtSe591wh7YJUiKQJzMiuMg_zMaCJdsQXUrJGYopD-4/s200/IMG_1274.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395136656466667762" /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>The five things I will miss about <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">babydom</span>:</div><div><br /></div><div>1. Holding a 9 lb. baby (vs. a 25lb. toddler) and yes at birth she was 9 lbs. 13oz. to be exact!</div><div>2. Watching her wriggle in her <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">blankies</span></div><div>3. Seeing her smile while playing peek a boo</div><div>4. Nursing</div><div>5. Watching her kick and squeal with her fat chubby legs</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRRxnsGxT-xvmFfQLqnQHJAxtDzGCTFDR7hctPjqyTis3rmc-5L6wvUZYZFuj5C6Bavac0zZMFjD1lZC-nbvwcUo01DugVDvuRpVhPH-8fbntQfEk8Yyh8qPILRN6sSeu7znd6eneUle8/s200/IMG_2246.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395136156392141810" /></div><div>Five things I am more than happy to wave goodbye to:</div><div><br /></div><div>1. Diapers- Need I say more?</div><div>2. Crack of dawn feedings</div><div>3. Spit up - only deal is now I traded it for the more gross kind cause she's older</div><div>4. Fights to get into the bath tub</div><div>5. Washing endless amount of baby clothes by hand - now the machine can do it for me!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg9Qa1vVt3qoI5n0JNXPtwN12Sa_VNtm3K8tdqkIuZpaU3VMhTLUzcJ47yxn_dO07K2wwZBXW6W91Foj3Y5ZogULplxKzHu_Om3sKZljsMvw8ELJsSZlnrp-Ze1coylHgzTjQwZ_uS8tT8/s200/IMG_2396.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395135828539199506" /></div><div><br /></div><div>May be some of you can give me some pointers for whats to look forward to so I don't miss it while I look back over these times. Me & the hubs cried about it late last night and while it's difficult there is much to rejoice over. All three of these years for her were healthy & happy. She is a well rounded, sharp as a tack, loving & caring little girl and I couldn't have dared to ask God for more. HE. IS. GOOD.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWlnWcC_THswUI0jBSAqwX3_nrq6dHFhRN1lxuwBfXfBuN-yzw1MawWAVlIhhE7oUfop5b_XDr3jS_5jLsQWf3oROW4KxkFehXa8ktlJAH_QeypxZBLrL_ynWQ8kkmiLgqo6bxS4ZNKh0/s200/IMG_2523.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395135332085314898" /></div><div><br /></div><div>Remember to redeem the time you have with your children while you have it and to leave tomorrow's worries for tomorrow. Sooner rather than later tomorrow will come and you will have missed out on today.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-51781489013067000502009-10-13T06:53:00.000-07:002009-10-13T07:12:20.156-07:00GOOD NEWS......<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnEzIbsPwZJSMlsvBmb_bOHWRdquykEWPG-hUPcCnAqmx2x-8LC0Z3AR6Ao1gbsNWIKDgAUwuhR36Fu1nQiRHreRgge9n6xboOVeN_jWVDWLZUhell2kU4fUljm1HEKq_vMKe8Bo1lGtU/s1600-h/extreme-makeover.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnEzIbsPwZJSMlsvBmb_bOHWRdquykEWPG-hUPcCnAqmx2x-8LC0Z3AR6Ao1gbsNWIKDgAUwuhR36Fu1nQiRHreRgge9n6xboOVeN_jWVDWLZUhell2kU4fUljm1HEKq_vMKe8Bo1lGtU/s200/extreme-makeover.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392086751546206306" /></a><div>While there is no installment for today's Awww...Inspiring moms The Forgotten Mom is finally getting a much needed... MAKEOVER!!!!</div><div><br /></div><div>Over at the Mom Bloggers Club I finally found a way to re-do my whole blog without hurting my pockets - Can you say FREE!!! Louise over at <a href="http://adorigraphics.bogspot.com/">Adori Graphics</a> is getting started and I hope you all</div><div> love what we have in store. Until then I have put a hold on uploading anymore interviews - I am SURE you have already noticed the lack of posting LOL but stayed tuned it's going to be fantabulous!</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDBez2ulNBvrZ2uQEglNf6ZttTq6IFmX3HvIB600bjOhGKcwba6JRXC_XCiq_THoj9e-n5iii8qduJUrYWwZy-G7Lh3Kgz8EY2Yawm16EJLSkrbXjoZB0Sh3GzAWGD4hwN1gy7JcuSeck/s200/IMG_2522_1.JPG" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392086174075270018" /></div><div>Just a little update on me and the munchkin.... she is going to turn three in just a few weeks and I feel as though I am going crazy. I am happy but sad all at the same time. Do you know what I mean? I can't help but come to tears while thinking of when I had her or looking at old pictures and I just can't believe that three years has gone by this fast! Well at least they were all happy & healthy years and God willing there is still more to come. It just keeps me on my toes when I need to be sure that I am spending time with her (while she's still small & growing) now.</div><div><br /></div><div>For those of you who are too busy to get down on the ground and just be silly with your kids today, try it you never know what memories you will create while you still have the time with them! P.S. don't forget whether you take time today, tomorrow or next week, do it and just for you!</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-21666640613474104792009-09-29T06:49:00.000-07:002009-09-29T07:57:36.224-07:00For those of you that don't know....<img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrH1u5QcMEcvgDMa0wzTgxzHSbnsnwiMQUXvcjSyYwfzNlbZ-tIt6Ekre8Wqu6K_vpxuDbGzcQq5zQDySjlxd-XBGK5lGDgK8Aso0Y518KWEWldx14zKva3_6MvrI9Ja6khi6jarRr2_E/s200/work+mom.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 128px; height: 145px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5386900501363064706" />I have begun a new segment on my blog. Who else would it be dedicated to but moms? I think that blogging is an outlet for many of us who need to reach out, be lifted up and encouraged by one another. What better way to do that then to find out more about those awesome moms that inspire us?<div><br /></div><div>Enough said! Here is another mom that many of us find Awww... Inspiring. Her dedication to family & work is tireless <i>and</i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal; "> she manages to squeeze in blogging amidst all of her duties.</span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal; ">Here's our second interview with Aww...Inspiring mom Akilah Richards.</span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" border-collapse: collapse; font-family:arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0.8ex; border-left-width: 1px; border-left-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-left-style: solid; padding-left: 1ex; "><span style=" border-collapse: collapse; font-family:arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" font-weight: bold; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Q. How has becoming a mom changed you for the better?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A</span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">. I know understand the value of time, specifically, making time to do the "little" things that mean more than the day-to-day. Since becoming a mom, I have a new perspective on career goals, because I see how my actions directly affect the lives of two people who didn't ask to be here, and deserve the world!</span></div></div></span></blockquote><blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0.8ex; border-left-width: 1px; border-left-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-left-style: solid; padding-left: 1ex; "><span style=" border-collapse: collapse; font-family:arial, sans-serif;font-size:13px;"><div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Q. Did you struggle with your transition into "mom"? What (or whom) do you credit with helping you to overcome the transitioning process? </span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A. </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I definitely struggled with the transition from law-school bound file clerk at a large Atlanta law firm, to pregnant chic trying to figure out how to handle this "baby plus career" thing! That is how my book, Execumama: A Pocket-guide for the Twenty-something Mommy on the Move, came to be. I spoke with dozens of women who successfully managed careers and parenting, and by the end of the project, I was certain that I could pursue my true passions (writing and entrepreneurship) while being a full-time mother, engaged in my children's lives, and enjoying every day with them. Through the stories of these incredible women, I found strength, inspiration, and proof!</span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Q. What do you find to be wonderful about parenting? What do you find to be difficult? What tip would you give to help other moms remedy that issue?</span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A. </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">One of the most wonderful things about parenting is the opportunities for self-growth. Our children are mirrors of the environments we've created, and through my daughters, I truly learn to be my best self. One of the more difficult aspects of parent for me is the level of selflessness it takes to be a committed parent. Some days, I'm tired, frustrated, etc., but that has to fall to the wayside to some extent, so that I can be there for my daughters and their needs. I am only human, so certainly I allow myself to feel my full range of emotions, taking moments to "lick my wounds", but at the end of the day (for me), it's about them, not me; not while they're this young (5 and 3).</span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Q. Where & how do you find the time to take care of you amidst caring for a family?</span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A. </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Fortunately, there are built-in fail safes in regards to parenting and self-care. In my house, if mommy's neglecting herself, then everyone pays the price (LOL!), so I exercise regularly at the YMCA where there's a Kidzone so that the girls can play safely for an hour or so while I handle my business. I also have a great support system with my husband and the girls' grandparents, and I utilize them when necessary. I also pray often and meditate to keep the external noise to a minimum and stay in tune with Creator's plan for me, which I believe is NOT limited to the blessing of parenthood.</span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Q. What is the most inspiring advice you have received as a mom that you would like to extend to other moms reading? </span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A. </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I don't know that there's one piece of advise in particular that stands out. What I would like to share is the overall thought that the women from my book drew me to conclude; that is to Define, Design, and Live your FULLEST version of Woman! If that means kicking butt at your corporate gig, then using your weekends to goof off in Happyville with your children, then so be it. That might mean giving up a great paying 9 to 5 in exchange for a part-time opportunity that may cause you to live in a smaller house, but gives you more quality time. But if that's what makes you feel like your fullest self, then go for it. The message is simple: you deserve to feel fulfilled by your daily actions, period! If the things you do from day-to-day leave you fatigued, unsatisfied, and in search of more, then you have a responsibility to yourself to work towards happiness, and create a life of fulfillment for you and your children.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:Arial;font-size:13px;"><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Akilah is an awesome example of how to make your family and work life the best for you. SO often we get caught up in drawing the line and saying you have to parent this way or staying home is the best of working is better. The truth is we must do what we have to do, in order to do what we want to do. Everyone's needs /priorities are different and instead of tearing one another down we as moms need to extend a hand to help those who need it up. Akilah, I wish you and your family all the best. My hope is that you continue to inspire the execumama in us at all, whether we work it at home or in the office! Definitely another aww..inspiring story!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Be sure to check out</span><a href="http://www.execumama.blogspot.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> Akilah's blog </span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">when you have the chance! And remember lovelies -</span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">to take some time today to take care of you!</span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></b></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">- Just a thought.....</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">P.S. Mommies, if you know another mom that you look to for </span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">inspiration</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> just send me a line at: candacejcs@gmail.com with her name, a link to her blog and a short message about why you find her </span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">inspiring</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> and she may be the next featured. Check next </span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Tuesday</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> for the new </span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">aww </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><b></b></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">inspiring</span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> mom. Enjoy!</span></b></div></span></span></div></div></span></blockquote></span></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-65198723138024102062009-09-21T10:57:00.000-07:002009-09-21T11:48:09.185-07:00The forgotten mom????<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz0GdzbwssABJiQiMsQXXeQWoFj8BBOaPE-ofpYeTXS32o0gEiNVC5ycT7kJUfj9mY3u9pw5gWZhGgtodOgbQ9cIwnZwFE8_DppELcUrM5NbFfuJkwVPcrMcJXiid29Xr_0DcVOHz_EPU/s1600-h/IMG_2522.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz0GdzbwssABJiQiMsQXXeQWoFj8BBOaPE-ofpYeTXS32o0gEiNVC5ycT7kJUfj9mY3u9pw5gWZhGgtodOgbQ9cIwnZwFE8_DppELcUrM5NbFfuJkwVPcrMcJXiid29Xr_0DcVOHz_EPU/s200/IMG_2522.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383993263644387538" /></a>It's more like the forgotten blog! LOL<div><br /></div><div>Hello Lovelies!!! I hope this finds you & yours well. Yes, me and my baby are well again Thank God! Here's a pic of my beautiful baby feeling better! We have been feeling so much better that I have been out & about with her for the last 2 going on 3 weeks in a row!<br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Surely that is a good thing because we all know how frustrating it can be to be home doing the same routine EVERY. SINGLE. DAY! But the only bad part is that makes me a bad blogger - hope you can forgive me ;) Anyhoo, I have been making some great friends, sewing - I am now learning how to quilt - with my womens group at my church and I have started to volunteer with a group of young women at a ministry here in Fort Lauderdale called His Caring Place. </div><div><br /></div><div>It has been nothing short of awesome! Sometimes as stay at homes moms our perspective of what we do is looked at as a burden. I heard Kate Gosselin say it best when she said: Each day is painfully the same, yet vastly different. I couldn't have said it better myself! So with that knowledge, I was determined to see another persons perspective on motherhood - someone less fortunate than I and boy was it an eye opener! We all know that I am a huge advocate of taking care of ourselves as moms and finding time for us during each day. Meeting these girls helped me to realize that having time to stay home with my child and a husband that supports me so I can is a blessing!</div><div><br /></div><div>So in light of seeing things from their perspective, I have dedicated some of my time to helping them out in their time of need. To help them refocus and see the blessing of having & caring for a child of their own. In turn it has helped me to strive to be a better & more appreciative mommy. I am still taking time for me if you are wondering but loving the feeling of giving back to those who are struggling just like i was. No better excuse to be away than that! I have A LOT of pics to post up - especially from the <a href="http://parentingconfessions.blogspot.com/2009/09/operation-organization-week-eight.html">organization challenge </a>- I'm a terrible soldier Melinda, please forgive me LOL! I have to say that we have been keeping up with our organizing efforts! </div><div><br /></div><div>Until next time lovelies, remember not to forget who you are and that you MUST make time for you!</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-85155618826721135432009-09-08T12:29:00.000-07:002009-09-08T12:41:11.521-07:00I hate being.....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCisvU6gFFU6UrNqL9InDRZI0KE-C2FiTa7fxwyCl006XnWNBSCFO76cloenTIAMPB-zCNTwgdm9cRsxaba0gWk2OS_ikllcQQf9DPxJylRZhZ0q66oWXDxyzVc8mUQpXvewuSytdSFrc/s1600-h/cold-and-cough.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCisvU6gFFU6UrNqL9InDRZI0KE-C2FiTa7fxwyCl006XnWNBSCFO76cloenTIAMPB-zCNTwgdm9cRsxaba0gWk2OS_ikllcQQf9DPxJylRZhZ0q66oWXDxyzVc8mUQpXvewuSytdSFrc/s200/cold-and-cough.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5379183516942674754" /></a><br />SICK!!! Nothing like not being able to breathe to add some extra crank to your day. <div><br /></div><div>Anyhoo, At least my baby girl is doing well. She had a fever and you know how it is when you are caring for a sick baby. Tears, kicking and screaming - only thing is that was me this time around ... not my daughter. What? You don't think us moms throw tantrums too? </div><div><br /></div><div>Like I was saying, After hours of waking up for medicine doses, Cradling her and rocking her back to sleep, I woke up with a faint scratchy feeling and surely after another two days of helping her get better a full blown, cant eat, cant breathe, cant sleep cold. It has been a while in between this one and the last and you know how it is when you are reminded that cold and flu season is coming!</div><div><br /></div><div>So....to all of the mommies out there caring for lil sick ones or yourself I have some extra tissue if you need any. Just let me know!</div><div><br /></div><div>Be sure to take care of you- sick or not.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-52562499402753032302009-09-01T07:29:00.000-07:002009-09-01T08:04:35.230-07:00There is nothing.....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSjl2iu-k24JLtgxNENu9HHSN5MTBsLn3xoALc6tBUW5QUfCUG8-ey0qNW4It6jsfK5DHO0HztKU3Mk5TeIGuB41bezMe2CnHNZaT5xwCx8IZs3lAjzZJp7QTqXFfPOK3fnva2ZR478HY/s1600-h/bonding.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 181px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSjl2iu-k24JLtgxNENu9HHSN5MTBsLn3xoALc6tBUW5QUfCUG8-ey0qNW4It6jsfK5DHO0HztKU3Mk5TeIGuB41bezMe2CnHNZaT5xwCx8IZs3lAjzZJp7QTqXFfPOK3fnva2ZR478HY/s200/bonding.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5376513953949650450" /></a><br />more inspiring to me than a mom that can identify with me about my struggles, make me laugh when life hurts and build me up so I can go on to becoming great. Some are placed in our lives as companions to walk with us and others are there to give us that little nudge to keep on going from day to day.<div><br /></div><div>Several women that I have relationships with and have come to know through the world of blogging automatically came to my mind and I felt compelled to tell you about them so they could bless you with their stories and wisdom. One of many that came to mind was <b>Cyndi</b> of <a href="http://www.somuchmorethanamom.com/">So Much More than a Mom</a>. I think the title of her site says it all! I had the pleasure of interviewing her first to kick off my new segment on Awww Inspiring moms.</div><div><br /></div><div>Here's our Interview:</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" border-collapse: collapse; font-family:Arial;"><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">Q. How has becoming a mom changed you for the better? </span></b></div><div><br /></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>A. Becoming a mom has forced me to be at least somewhat pleasant in the morning. I used to insist that no one speak to me for at least 2 hours and was very difficult to deal with if that rule was broken.</b></span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><br /></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">Q. Did you struggle with your transition into "mom"? What (or whom) do you credit with helping you to overcome the transitioning process? </span></b></div><div><b><br /></b></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>A. </b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>Strangely enough, no I didn't struggle one bit. I credit my oldest son for being born 6 weeks early and needing emergency surgery at 3 weeks old with making my transition process much different than I expected. My mommy instincts kicked into overdrive and I was just so grateful he was healthy that I never really struggled with anything else.</b></span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">Q. What do you find to be wonderful about parenting? What do you find to be difficult? What tip would you give to help other moms remedy that issue? </span></b></div><div><b><br /></b></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">A.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"> </span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>Wonderful is seeing my little babies continue to grow into amazing little individuals. Difficult is figuring out how to deal with the ever-evolving problems that come with each new phase of their lives. Tip: pick your battles and listen, really listen, to your kids.</b></span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">Q. Where & how do you find the time to take care of you amidst caring for a family? </span></b></div><div><b><br /></b></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>A. </b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>I could go on and on about this. I make sure I get alone time, girlfriend time, reading time, massage time, etc. It's a priority for me and luckily for my husband. I did not do this for many years and suffered because of it. Now, I regularly take time for myself including everything from lurking around bookstores to taking vacations alone or with girlfriends to going back to college.</b></span></div><div class="im" style="color: rgb(80, 0, 80); "><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000000;">Q. What is the most inspiring advice you have received as a mom that you would like to extend to other moms reading? </span></b></div><div><b><br /></b></div></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;">A. </span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b>I can't recall receiving much advice except....put the baby monitor on HIS side of the bed!! :) </b></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b><br /></b></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF0000;"><b> Advice I would give is: 1. Enjoy your kids while you can. They grow up way too fast. 2. Take time for yourself. Don't give up who you are just because you've become a mom. 3. Take time to keep your relationship with your partner interesting. Once the kids are gone it will be just the 2 of you again and I've seen too many couples who have ignored their relationships during the child-rearing years only to realize that they no longer have any connection at all.</b></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I couldn't have said it better myself! Definitely an awww...inspiring story. Cyndi you are wonderful and I wish you all the best in your endeavors to take care of you and your family. I hope you will continue to be as inspiring to others as you have been to me. Be sure to check out <a href="http://www.somuchmorethanamom.com/">Cyndi's blog</a> when you have the chance! And remember lovelies - <b>to take some time today to take care of you!</b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><div>- Just a thought.....</div><div><br /></div><div><b>P.S. Mommies, if you know another mom that you look to for </b><b>inspiration</b><b> just send me a line with her name, a link to her blog and a short message about why you find her </b><b>inspiring</b><b> and she may be featured. Check it out next </b><b>Tuesday</b><b> for the next </b><b>aww</b><b> </b><b>inspiring</b><b> mom. Enjoy!</b></div></span></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-74210000601958799152009-08-26T08:25:00.000-07:002009-08-26T08:28:51.278-07:00Are you serious.......<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYmbT4evhXpfRgay5v3XF2eowo1h990Mcq5HXrQCibstPQ1LDHhNBRmUXNgoXsx0UVsf6ttwmO229iO28zuMUyVyTHYyg28TOHq5z5O67_MwXXzlxFHLEiO-xOaYXVu4S_TnFvaZthy8Q/s1600-h/Christian-Louboutin-Zoupi_BEC51D08.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYmbT4evhXpfRgay5v3XF2eowo1h990Mcq5HXrQCibstPQ1LDHhNBRmUXNgoXsx0UVsf6ttwmO229iO28zuMUyVyTHYyg28TOHq5z5O67_MwXXzlxFHLEiO-xOaYXVu4S_TnFvaZthy8Q/s200/Christian-Louboutin-Zoupi_BEC51D08.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374294297479838114" /></a><br />Another to add to the collection of shoes that make me want to do things I shouldn't to get them. They may be a little to much for you but I can't get enough. <div><br /></div><div>Zippers?!!!! I mean come on Zippers!!!! I LOVE IT!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>- Another random thought....<br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-50069943778127173052009-08-25T10:50:00.000-07:002009-08-25T11:26:49.566-07:00You may not know this.....<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFH-W8rXCmgr8PAA_kSdokHmPU_q-CC6F1iYAPiSW0K8nqLXKdeoVOYHswNn6iglUgWsRBhIgbk9M5q4Dcv-hy6LLXbHCRBTqlBwZQpdfpbZI1NY5Hz4u0v8t7_i5l8g96-X0f-dcANXw/s1600-h/awiblogbuttoninspired.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 115px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFH-W8rXCmgr8PAA_kSdokHmPU_q-CC6F1iYAPiSW0K8nqLXKdeoVOYHswNn6iglUgWsRBhIgbk9M5q4Dcv-hy6LLXbHCRBTqlBwZQpdfpbZI1NY5Hz4u0v8t7_i5l8g96-X0f-dcANXw/s200/awiblogbuttoninspired.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5373969413383500002" /></a>but on many days after reading some (even all) of your posts I am so inspired to keep going on some of my toughest days as a mommy! I think that is what i love most about the "world" of blogging. The comraderie, the laughs and even when we cry reading some of the posts. Amidst all of that there is a sense of community among us no matter what we are going through. <div><br /></div><div>I have been so inspired lately that I have decided to start dedicating posts to some of you "Awww...inspiring" moms out there! It will be my version of momspiration. Each mom will be asked a short list of questions( anywhere from 3 -5 ) revolving around how they keep themselves sane and live to tell us about it. Everything from daily routines, caring for our hubbies and most importantly how they "try" to meet the mark of caring for themselves during the<b><i> exciting <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">routine</span></span> </i></b>of cooking, cleaning and loving their families. </div><div><br /></div><div>I will be posting about several of the moms I find inspiring and if you would like to nominate a mom blogger you know that is "Awwww....Inspiring" and will give us all a little hope for getting it right when tomorrow comes, drop me a line in the comment box (or e-mail me: candacejcs@gmail.com) with the following:</div><div><br /></div><div><b>- Her Name</b></div><div><b>- A link to her blog and</b></div><div><b>- What you find most inspiring about her (regardless of circumstance)</b></div><div><br /></div><div>I think it will be great for helping us all adjust our perspective -of life as we know it- and it will give us some incentive to better ourselves and set examples of our children to follow. It's just another way to see that we are taking care of ourselves and one another.</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought....</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-85357739104907018802009-08-21T07:59:00.000-07:002009-08-21T08:21:25.702-07:00Drumroll please........<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipYFvAjDK5nenlNDEsGeiiXfrixG4uoffMFPjl-K3TeTBX1i3F-PBKDvy2Kd94tvNzZsVpshOxK8bq7Suvshg3RofO0ROew0basdNnBtguUMQtIynVZj7Kk0Z2Yq0AO2VUgkMVoZ2osnQ/s1600-h/global-common-330x220-ents-snapshots-disk12-258-woman-in-yellow-t-shirt-surprise.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipYFvAjDK5nenlNDEsGeiiXfrixG4uoffMFPjl-K3TeTBX1i3F-PBKDvy2Kd94tvNzZsVpshOxK8bq7Suvshg3RofO0ROew0basdNnBtguUMQtIynVZj7Kk0Z2Yq0AO2VUgkMVoZ2osnQ/s200/global-common-330x220-ents-snapshots-disk12-258-woman-in-yellow-t-shirt-surprise.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5372435214219400178" /></a>And the winner is...... <b>Jackie! Congratulations Jackie! </b>I am sure that your gift certificate will be used well. Especially with three little ones lol!<div><br /></div><div>I suspect you will try to take advantage while you have your "Time Out". For those of you that don't know, the movement has begun! <a href="http://3little1.blogspot.com">Jackie</a> did a recent post on a fabulous idea that <a href="http://www.thetamom.com/2009/08/are-you-in.html">Theta Mom</a> came up with. If finding time just for you everyday is too much to ask then why not resolve to 1 hour per week just for you?<b> I LOVE IT!</b></div><div><br /></div><div>No matter how much time we have to ourselves or not, we are WORTH it! Stop by Theta Mom's place and sign up and be sure to come back and tell me about. I might even start a challenge of my own, who knows? I think we are finally beginning to understand how important we are.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>- How about that for a thought?</b></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-1107937708233378582009-08-17T16:04:00.000-07:002009-08-19T10:32:18.623-07:00I'm.....backkkkkkk!!!!! I know it's been a lil' bit lovelies, I have been EXTREMELY busy around these parts. I joined a womens group with my church and I've been a social butterfly this past week. Baby Showers, New Births and running from place to place with my little cookie. Nothing short of the usual as a mom. <div><br /></div><div>You know how it is....Anyhoo, all of the hustle and bustle has me missing New York! I miss the crowded trains, and the fast buses and the attitudes - no scratch that - I just miss my home away from home. ALL of my family is still up there. Do you know how hard it is to make friends around here? I still can't understand why you can live next to someone for 10 Years and not know who they are. I mean come on! Sorry for the rant there. Don't get me wrong, sun and palm trees, sand and the waters edge is nice but every single day... I think not. ESPECIALLY with this heat and humidity - it's forced me to wear my hair curly all the time. I'm tired of watching the makeup roll off of my face, the sweat POUR off my brow and cabin fever cause it's "TOO HOT" to go outside. Ok enough of this complain' business let's look at the fun stuff!<div><div><br /></div><div>I have been just about coveting and dreaming of being in New York this fall wearing some of the seasons latest fashions. Sleek cardigans and sexy boots and beautiful wool coats. *sigh* Anyhoo I will make the best of it - At least I 'll get to send my family pictures of us on Christmas day at the beach LOL! But in the meantime I will continue to dream about all of the loveliness that's just about to begin come September and October. Here's some of my latest "Fall" inspiration:</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:arial;font-size:7;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 40px; white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Georgia;font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: 10px; white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/fall..ing_forward/set?.mid=embed&id=11374732"><img width="400" alt="Fall..ing forward" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFnFNWXh1WXFMM2hHX09VeFJxbU8wbEEAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="Fall..ing forward" height="400" border="0" /></a><br/><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/fall..ing_forward/set?.mid=embed&id=11374732">Fall..ing forward</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.mid=embed&id=973220">For the love of Fashion</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/mint_jodi_arnold/shop?brand=MINT+JODI+ARNOLD&category_id=2">MINT JODI ARNOLD</a></small></div></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: 10px; white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/catty_sophisticate/set?.mid=embed&id=11376686"><img width="400" alt="Catty Sophisticate" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFlhsTEtGcFNMM2hHSS1ORnJteVZJQmcAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="Catty Sophisticate" height="400" border="0" /></a><br/><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/catty_sophisticate/set?.mid=embed&id=11376686">Catty Sophisticate</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.mid=embed&id=973220">For the love of Fashion</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/coach_bags/shop?brand=Coach&category_id=35">Coach bags</a></small></div></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" white-space: pre-wrap; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; font-family:arial;font-size:10px;"><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:85%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 10px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:85%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 10px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:85%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 10px;"><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/city_slicker_chic/set?.mid=embed&id=11422827"><img width="400" alt="City Slicker Chic" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFlNCNm9SdU9NM2hHN1B1bGQ4T0JSN0EAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="City Slicker Chic" height="400" border="0" /></a><br/><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/city_slicker_chic/set?.mid=embed&id=11422827">City Slicker Chic</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.mid=embed&id=973220">For the love of Fashion</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/jimmy_choo_boots/shop?brand=Jimmy+Choo&category_id=42">Jimmy Choo boots</a></small></div></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Well just to indulge & "care" for myself - cause that's what this blog is about - I am off to search for the perfect pair of boots to take with me on my next trip to New York - Hopefully this fall for my daughter's birthday! I will be sure to post about the fabulousness soon to come. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px;">Speaking of fabulous.... What are you doing to make <b><i>YOU</i></b> feel fabulous today? Hopefully it's making some time - amidst the madness yes- to relax and enjoy you.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px;">- Just a thought.....</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:130%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px;">P.S. I'll post some update pics on my progress with my organization challenge next time I'm on, and if you haven't already be sure to <a href="http://http://theforgottenmom.blogspot.com/2009/08/its.html">check out this post</a> for my FIRST giveaway! The winner is to be announced in just a few days!</span></span></div></span></div></div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-27779697909266334142009-08-10T06:45:00.000-07:002009-08-10T08:02:53.134-07:00I don't even know.....<div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;">how I managed to forget to post about the madness going on in my house!!!</div></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJSzX7PdmhtJaLX4f2xnau1pIBHTXtqVLZ4-Lc7jjdQjDaES1CDLIDcSUlXs6GgPJLeNyKV-b5DZJ8R09FIXHDKhv-XrYvNMl_WLgQTEnD9uEsNxN6OKrSZ4spjBnHwRN_iEjaPRJ1F-U/s200/shining_mist.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 164px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368346885266551010" /></div><div>Good morning lovelies! I hope the face of God is shining on you like the sun is shining on me here in South Florida! As i was saying.... I don't know how I managed to forget to post about my organization efforts aka the madness goin' on in my house. Last week I posted about Melinda's Organization challenge that I joined in order to get my act together on my home front.</div><div>Melinda.... challenge it was indeed! I cleaned areas I was afraid to look at, enough dust to start a wind storm in my house and more toys than one little girl had time to play with.</div><div><br /></div><div>But, when all was said and done my baby finally had a room and a clean place to call her own. I'm not as sentimental as most but certainly I feel like crying right now. It is hands down one of the best things I have set out to do (and actually accomplished) in a long time. Thank you Melinda & to all you other ladies taking it one space at a time... you go girls! Even the hubs has been inspired! He's been cleaning out all of his equipment and plans to sell it with all of the other treasures found in our cluttered closets.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>Here are some of the pics from our first victory:</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh99wSs7wKUNwzN_HDJ_upejXL79dgJ4XkSHnYycb6fErmxnTYzjoM_RrnpMP3HhVQ2jO-bhAkn3K3fkd0xsd8OLZTW856tUGkFAw9PAwo1CyyleCREXLdb5znrcw_iasQR8xME8pV4XmA/s200/IMG_2442.JPG" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368345400869342402" /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXAs38v1it8mVjeqZ9ILo4yLbi-pDxt1lqS9pRm2_nn-DoIDz0Tri93LgP-NKIIa_YtPWbuPFtT0lgpWvHwBBMxJ8h0W6MNIWLIP97npcq3MSS8d2ynNG_91cjKSH77gLII0Xqgf-vRZc/s200/IMG_2447+redone.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368350488472518738" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifgZp7mUZgJK_Yah350nW35DxjzLPpfKPv9gplKrgGVFg5OdNJGIcpvZV3cB8XZS-R16Wai4H2l8Wx9hZGsrv0208qYeehPVqSfs2phy8p2ZSTMnIq9s4EGPm6ezxwTOU1hHR-ACb8cOw/s200/IMG_2448.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368333706508765874" /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: left;">You can actually see the floor!!!!!</div><div><br /></div><div>No more boxes, No more clutter just pure freedom! Melinda, You are a genius - thank you for cluing us in on your secret plot to deliver us from our clutter!</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm free ya'll I'm free..... for now that is. <b>Here are the nasty pics of our next designated spot</b>:</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbzD42AxDZfHbQf6lSysxoYXa2PoQPJiXLj0xKrlHgNu_XlpFpntt2uCnEEC60Do_DHCzKHCubfBr9eb6tXd2PA7tQ-0se3W_u6qQsHnTYkRuCe2CDnEI7EswhxZpVijk-1TkGlkJwwR0/s200/IMG_2472.JPG" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368344228507640770" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiI3OfN_lCzF3vCvqJ6ehAq2vdkkjSN6qoXHUxp9mjuotoR63f4Ts3RCV_jmzpE7mtonjCMEVOriomCBBkGJO33vnZjFJTGq96oe1Ysjir1cXgsv7NkgD-rIemjKi9V4MH4_FxFPafQUEI/s200/IMG_2469.JPG" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368350130516856114" /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOrJvGCXieg_QtNCTOURsDP9o7jlBT2YfLF6uGVXxz2ZwYe3Dz7fCtbN9vfsqscpn4AMgfAVEB-u_pkf26MxXNfWODMjt0LVORjXqmWLUPZBjcaks8brz9mwrRLCt1pvRCrPS2REsA_6I/s200/IMG_2470.JPG" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368349823873984690" /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div></div><div>Here's to getting our acts together...together!</div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought...... Oh, LOL, you thought I forgot to ask huh? What are you gonna do for you?</div><div><br /></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-72172787307606303142009-08-07T07:36:00.000-07:002009-08-07T08:27:54.078-07:00It's .......<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgouxzibVoqjCHZgJZRmcXp-CNJ8upFk5-dIR1MYUZuBsNK_95nvcUTBdkGs9A43LYSx7lXHj0P9svias04bsXHdqwSAtHHxxaPkHadNWtoD2b-1VqK2sVhGhfMQMowzXu19eZUaTV72ns/s1600-h/72724572.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgouxzibVoqjCHZgJZRmcXp-CNJ8upFk5-dIR1MYUZuBsNK_95nvcUTBdkGs9A43LYSx7lXHj0P9svias04bsXHdqwSAtHHxxaPkHadNWtoD2b-1VqK2sVhGhfMQMowzXu19eZUaTV72ns/s200/72724572.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5367241713050859474" /></a><br />FRIDAY!!!!! Thank you God! Time to enjoy a relaxing weekend or so I hope...<div><br /></div><div>OK Lovelies, you know that among others I am a HUGE advocate for moms and stressing the importance of caring for ourselves. Well what kind of advocate would I be if I didn't give you the tools necessary to motivate you to care for yourself?</div><div><br /></div><div>Well, enough said! I was approached by Ecostore USA to review some products and review I did! I tried two of their products - the <a href="http://www.ecostoreusa.com/babymoisturizer.aspx">Baby Moisturizer</a> and <a href="http://www.ecostoreusa.com/vanillasoap.aspx">Vanilla Soap</a>. Now I must admit that I am a PRODUCT JUNKIE - yes I am in therapy for it, especially when it comes to my hair. However, that does not apply when it comes to my daughter. I like most moms when they were pregnant ran to the shelves stocked with Johnson & Johnson and Aveeno only to find that my daughter is extremely sensitive to those conventional products. I had fallen in love with the idea of her smelling like that baby lotion and the baby shampoo but when I used it I noticed an immediate rash or irritations that just wouldn't quit.</div><div><br /></div><div>You can imagine my frustration with trying to find just the right products out there and trial periods of dealing with rashes and irritations. Any mom out there know what I'm talking about? Anyhoo, I was left with very few products to choose from to care for my cookie's delicate skin. Sooooooo....you can imagine how leary I was to try this new baby moisturizer on her. I was concerned but the fact that the majority of the product was plant based helped to ease <b><i>som</i></b><b><i>e</i></b> of my concerns. Usually, I won't settle for things that aren't organic but after reading the ingredient list I wasn't alarmed so I stepped out on faith and tried it. To my surprise, after I bathed her and put it on her there were no immediate bumps or rashes and even better.... she woke up the next morning and wasn't scratching! Hallelujah!</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIy4fRZDWqO3V-hfMUgeX_8-XXSMVP1lkrAOI5NhDh8Ol7E4QoxyWcnA4XIqrDZ2pXc3nvBwpmhjZqM97MFA9QkX4JrLQSDm7dEn69QGuHn7dvHhzO_VGASDLqItufPHNaR0-vDya5FS4/s200/woman-applying-moisturizer-348ng100908.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 142px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5367241198604799298" /></div><div>I give them my seal of approval cause if it doesn't irritate her it's good in my book. I also tried the vanilla soap (on me- Leia's too sensitive for scented stuff) which was interesting to say the least. It didn't have an overwhelming scent of vanilla instead it was very lightly scented (good for those with sensitive sniffers) I thought it was cool but the hubs didn't particularly like it. He likes the sweet smelling stuff- so it won't become a staple for me to use but I thought it worked well for me.</div><div><br /></div><div>With that said, I am doing <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">My First Giveaway!</span></b> You know how important it is to take care of yourself so why not do it with better quality products? You know you want to win!!! The winner will receive a <b>$25.00 Gift Certificate</b> to use for any product you desire from Ecostore Usa and body & baby care isn't the limit of their scope of products. They have household cleaners, hair care products and more.</div><div><br /></div><div>In order to be entered to win, you have to :</div><div><br /></div><div><b>1. Be a follower of my blog ;) - shameless plug!</b></div><div><b>2. Leave a comment with your best tip for helping moms to care for themselves </b></div><div><b>3. Sign up for the No Nasty Chemicals Newsletter on the Ecostore USA Blog</b></div><div><b>4. Follow Ecostore Usa on their Twitter or Facebook Page</b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal; ">The winner will be announced on Friday August 21.</span></b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><div><b>Simple huh? </b>A little incentive for you to <b>R</b><b>emember not to Forget</b> to take care of yourself!</div><div>From the forgotten mom herself! </div><div><br /></div><div>- Just a thought...</div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5046568666381958335.post-25194972924048244132009-08-05T12:23:00.000-07:002009-08-05T12:30:08.064-07:00Are you....<img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdQwtGBoNi0qjobfLUw_mM0R1_5SbX1pi8n7TIyZUl36pHICvqjNlkBfKqrnkRBLD_a8GbESwDqx_6WmQA-zQ7pf-7OXKcKcaUYb_qSclvKq1A66sJ4Q6lznrNmyJmOlFQvj0QYJsOBAY/s200/we09-vo-ds12435.jpg" style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 138px; height: 200px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366563407048856370" /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">KIDDING ME????</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">I saw these bad boys in an e-mail newsletter today from Style.com and almost fell out of my computer chair.....Gorgeous! </span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Balenciaga</span>, I love you!!!!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Yes I posted about shoes only today - They were just too fly to pass up. I know you've come across a pair that made you think of doing illegal things to get them. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">Now you know you are NOT the only one <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">LOL</span>! Enjoy Lovelies!</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:large;">- Just a thought...</span></div></div></div>Candace Sheppardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06473469902539570760noreply@blogger.com7